Being a little less like Amelia just isn't in the cards for me, I don't think. Definitely not if I come home wearing a stranger's clothes, which is what happened last night. I left my apartment freshly dressed in (what I thought was) light rain attire and quickly learned that my 10 block walk to the church community group would be a very wet adventure.
After about block #2, I realized my shoes were squishing. After block #5, I ducked into an open apartment building doorway and had a one-way conversation with a nice man waiting for the rain to pass. I explained my options: forge on and arrive at a stranger's house looking like a wet dog or return to my apartment looking like a wet dog without failing a first impression. He seemed to have no opinion either way, so of course I forged ahead, leaving him to laugh in the doorway.
Every bit of me was soaked, from my hooded head to my size six feet. My hair was matted down and my pants had turned a deeper green color. When I got to the house, I apologized instead of introduced myself because I knew I looked frightful. Before I knew it, I was changed into a nice woman's clothes and munching on vegan chocolate blueberry biscotti on her sofa and listening to her tell their NYC relocation story.
My clothes never did dry, so I wore the nice woman's clothes back home and made myself a saucepan of hot water (no teapot yet) and some ginseng green tea while I spread out the rain shower I had soaked up in my garments.
Oh, I am ever so grateful for Christian community - where no one is really a stranger and a dry change of clothes is only one knock away! It's Christian community that keeps Amelia's like myself clothed and safe. I suppose it takes many invisible miracles to keep my clumsy feet from slipping in this city and for that I am very grateful.
I'll return the clothes soon and have another reason to knock on that door on Sterling Street. We won't be strangers anymore (I mean, how can we after sharing closets?) and that has just added three more names to my very slim NYC rolodex.
Now, about getting that wisdom, maybe one can come by it on a round about path. Maybe "getting" wisdom can look like meeting strangers and rain walking and couch conversations, too.