"I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind." Ecclesiastes 1:14
She clung to my shoulders with her arms and knees, her neck wrapped on mine as the fountain misted our backs and absorbed our squeals. As soon as the wind changed, she anticipated the next mist and around the Bailey Fountain we went - a blurred, bouncing spectacle for the tourists posing in front of the mysterious, mythological scene. The sun beat down just as the mist dewed our faces and there are no photos of our delight. It lived so perfectly in that moment, just after 12 noon on a Tuesday.
Her little, tumbling giggle surprised us both. It was almost too generous - too full and wild. And, if I was guessing, I would say this is a little bit why little children can come to Jesus.
This full and wild generosity of a child is unrestrained - like their Maker, ready to unleash lavish goodness in response to beauty and in the middle of delight.
There are many ways an adult can 'become like a child' and none of them are so easy. I have moments, like the fountain, where delight washes over and nothing 'adult' matters. But, most moments, I am aware of my unfortunate maturity. I squirm in skin that has worked hard to shake free of dependence - to get established and known and significant. But, the world is stingy with delight, starved of any true kind. All my slow (and unsteady) progress toward adulthood often feels like chasing after the wind. Meaningless. Culture doesn't help me get past this curse - I'm constantly reminded that my life is supposed to be linear, that my work is supposed to build and progress and flourish into an evolving and important identity.
There is another baby bulging out of my belly, did I mention that? That's very adult. The second time around is different for all the obvious reasons, but also because I am not in my first months of marriage and my brother did not just die. But my favorite part has been watching Zella's sweet affection grow with the size of my belly. She leans in to sing her own made up songs. She tells the baby about all the excitement of this world (mostly noting the baby will get to drink milk). She perceives when the baby is awake and asleep. I'm glad she is paying attention; her wonder pulls me in.
Did we in our own strength confide,
Our striving would be losing;
I think about that stanza often. It plays in my head without invitation and all my neurons rush to find its melody. Maybe the elusive "winning" is the undercurrent of my everyday, the obvious wanting in every disrupted simple task. The edge of the full dustpan tips on the trashcan and empties on the floor. Not winning. The internet refreshes on days of blog rambles and doesn't save a word. Not winning. The laundromat increases their prices 8 quarters more than all your cash and the nearest free ATM is 10 blocks away and your potty-trained lady just made a puddle by washer number 4. Not winning.
But God undoes win-lose scenarios - actually disappears them, and not because my daily losses are unimportant or irrelevant. But because he cares so intimately about the sweeping and the creating and the laundry, that He redeems and redefines winning completely. His measurement is an altogether different scale, interstellar dimension status. If not, the "right man on our side" would have been one big loser.
Were not the right man on our side,
a man of God's own choosing
I get now why He let the little children come. They aren't so wrapped up and weighted down with losses. Or, at least they aren't keeping such close track. Or, they get His measurement system - where delight can disrupt the scales in the middle of a series of terrible, horrible, no good, very bad moments. If I'm honest, I need a million of those blurred, bouncing moments - chasing fountain mist with a giggling toddler. I need almost constant reminders of the different win-lose dimension scale.
In a recent talk (which, BTW is winning), Jen Wilkin said, "Human love is based on need. God's love is not. His covenant stands because it is in no way dependent on me."
Because God is altogether different, in being and knowing and doing, He is hope against wind chasing. Even as we become like little children - embracing their delight and dependence - we must be supremely aware of His absolute goodness and absolute other-ness. He is true and present in a windstorm and on a still day. In our struggle against a world of devils, it is His truth that triumphs through us - not because of all of our wind chasing, but because He is good. That is why He can be so generous, why His generosity never changes with temperaments or time.
His absolute goodness is in Him like our infinite humanity is in us.